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©Simon Chilembo, 2014

©Simon Chilembo, 2014

Racism is a constant. Racism does not change colour with location, or time. Racism is not some figment of the imagination. Racism is as real as day and night. Racism cannot be explained away; it is neither an intellectual nor academic exercise. Racism is unidirectional like an arrow in flight. Its objective is to demean, use, abuse, exploit, hurt, dehumanize, destroy, and obliterate; nothing in between. The ultimate goal of racism is genocide.

Racism is a systematized, institutionalized mind-set of false superiority, entitlement, and privilege over Black people by White people. Racism classifies Black people as stupid, intellectually inferior sub-humans. Racism is no playing matter for Black and dark-skinned people of the world. Racism eats into the flesh and bones of Black and dark-skinned people of the world as if sulphuric acid. When a Black and dark-skinned person has lost their identity and sense of pride, and have ceased to reproduce themselves effectively, racism has done its job according to plan.

Racism against Black and dark-skinned people of the world nothing compares to it. It does not matter how intelligent, successful, creative, powerful, affluent, influential, proud, and self-confident a Black and dark-skinned person of the world is; racism seeks to eliminate them from them face of the earth. In South Africa, it took out Steve Biko, to name but one anti-racism icon in our time. In the USA, racism can’t quite get it right. And, so, it has a field day dishonouring, disrespecting, and working against President Barack Obama each and every step of the way. It’s not about President Obama doing the wrong thing or not. The man is simply Black, and according to racism propagators, he cannot rightly be the president of the USA, and by extension, the most powerful man in the world. If allowed to live, Black people, according to racism, ought to be slaves and/ cheap entertainment objects for other non-Black people.

Because this is a very personal piece on the subject, based on my direct life-long experiences of the abhorrent practice as a Black person, in my world, racism defines both historical and contemporary power relations between White people and Black people at both regional, as well as global levels. In the competition for access to, and ownership of limited survival resources on earth, White people have devised methods, ways, and means to sideline, deprive, exclude, marginalize, suppress, and oppress Black people with respect to deriving benefits from the wealth of their own nations, as well as that of the world. Discrimination and segregation have been/ are used to set Black people apart and away from the good that growth, progress, and development in society ought to bring to all who live in it. In the old South Africa we had Apartheid, which instituted and applied with extremely effective police and military brutality, laws which ensured total disenfranchisement of Black people.

South African Black people were second class citizens in their own country, treated with the most humiliating and dehumanizing indignities by White people practising racism, guided and protected by the lethal Apartheid power state machinery. To this day, there is evidence of extremely poor housing and sub-standard provision of social amenities inherited from the Apartheid era. There is also evidence of continuing arrogance of power by pockets of White racists misguidedly acting either alone or in organized fringe groups, living in denial of the fact that the inherently structurally weak South African White supremacist foundations crumbled with the fall of Apartheid in 1994. In the same manner, there are White and some strange other supposedly non-Black-but-not-quite-White people across the world who live with the conviction that real Black-Black people are inferior and intellectually deprived by default. Hardly surprising, therefore, that Black people are treated as doormats by even the most wretched of the earth globally. But then again, there are Black Super Stars who crush racism and racists everywhere on a daily basis. Come to me, I show you how.

The anti-racism stance and struggle are not about individual victories over small time, small-minded bigots and racists in small towns owing to a Black Super Star’s privilege, status, success, power, influence, as well as protection and luck. There are many a Black Super Star and other dark-skinned people who will go through their lives claiming to be oblivious to racism. These will either be outright dumb, ignorant, naïve, arrogant, uncultured, and unrealistic, if not all of these. On the other hand, we acknowledge that there will be eccentrics everywhere; they too have the right to live and to express themselves in the free world. Nevertheless, it is tragically insensitive, symptomatic of having little or no respect at all for Black people victims of racism all over the world to perceive racism as non-existent, dismissing it as being merely a matter of possible low self-esteem issues manifestation on the part of the racially violated.

Racism is huge, ugly as any monster can be. Racism is at the core of historical and contemporary imperialist and colonialist expansion, as well as domination. The enormous losses of human life and material resources in the global struggle against Imperialism and Colonialism bear enough testimony as to the deeply grave nature of racism. Through the epochs, at the centre of about all major liberation struggles across the world is the people’s need to free themselves from the shackles of racism and its anti-life attributes of discrimination, marginalization, and segregation, as well slavery and murder.

Racism is not about how I as an individual feel and think of myself and my reality. My thoughts give substance to my feelings arising from how racism ever strives to soil my reality, and how I shall relate to that reality. I know I am not alone in knowing and understanding how racism works. It is by rising and keeping together as boundless resourceful free thinkers, intellectuals, academicians, philosophers, scientists, and freedom fighters that we can continue mobilizing mass movements against racism through creativity and innovation via the arts, literature, culture, and education, including social activism and militancy, as well as business. The fact is that White supremacist racism pukes on everybody that’s not White. There may be so many shades of Black and/ or Blackness in a racialised non-White-yet-not-so-Black person’s eyes, but Black is Black in a White supremacist’s eyes.

Therefore, I beg to differ with a dear friend when she says, on Facebook (Own translation from Norwegian), “Either I am ignorant of the negativity that has come my way, or I am an exception. If I say I have (ever) experienced racism that will be a lie, but if I have (ever) been subjected to stupid comments about not being an ethnic Norwegian, yeah, then the speaker will have gotten a response he/ she will remember the rest of their lives … (I) Think that which is perceived as racism is more a form of vulnerability on the part of the offended. If the offended had seen that it’s only idiots who can behave that way (i.e. racist), and that all are equal under the law, regardless of whether someone likes it or not, we would perhaps hear a bit less (of) ‘victim’ of racism occurrences. Exception is harassment, (and) discrimination because of dressing style, religion, and skin colour. In that case one ought to seek justice, and report the case… / Enten er jeg ignorant av det negative som må ha passert meg, ellers så er jeg et unntak. Hvis jeg sier jeg har opplevd rasisme så vil det være en løgn, men om jeg har vært utsatt for dumme kommentarer angående det å være ikke etnisk norsk, tja men da har vedkommende fått seg et svar som han/hun vil huske resten av livet… Tror det som blir oppfattet som rasisme er mer en form for sårbarhet av den som føler seg utsatt, hadde vedkommende sett at det er kun idioter som kan finne på å oppføre seg slik og at alle er like under loven, uansett om noen liker eller ikke liker det, så hadde vi kanskje hørt litt mindre “offer” for rasisme episoder. Unntak er da trakassering, diskriminering,pga klesplagg, religion og hudfarge. Da bør man gå rettens vei eller anmelde…”

Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
September 14, 2015


New Job Application:
Change, Win, Adapt, or Jump in The Lake in The Diaspora

Simon Chilembo, Founder/ President, ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Simon Chilembo, Founder/ President ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

How old I was then was of no concern to me. At that age I saw things in terms of physical appearances relative to other objects in the immediate environment. People were adults because they were far bigger, and stronger than me. When I first became consciously aware of where I was in my surroundings, it was of no concern to me as to whether I was coming or going; I was just there where I found myself, having the time of my life discovering wonders of the world.

In the middle of the darkest of nights, this big man had put me up on his shoulders, with my hands barely touching each other across his forehead, holding tight as I had been instructed. He took my grandmother’s hand, and led the wade into, and across the Caledon River at a hip high, slow rapids point, with thick willow tree forest on either side. Silence was everything, so was invisibility. Somewhere about half way across the river, the man stepped on a loose stone, missing balance slightly. My immediate panic reflex response was to scream, but the man’s harsh “SHHH!!!” stopped my voice cold. He whispered we stand still for a while. “If the police on the other side see or hear us, we are dead. They shoot to kill. They don’t miss!” the man said. After what seemed like forever, our guide and protector proceeded to see my grandmother and I across the river safely, and walked us through the river bank forest. Sure that we were safe into South Africa, the man turned back to return to his village on the other side, instructing my grandmother to speak to no one until we get to the train station. My grandmother had earlier told me that the man and his elderly father made a living by helping people cross the river into South Africa in the way we just did. There were all sorts of people, from those simply out to look for work, lovers such as my grandmother was, to politicians and freedom fighters.

Now I know I was four-and-half years old when I was introduced to the world of human trafficking. I understood already at that age that lack of passport could never be a hindrance to travel if you had money and other resources to pay somebody who had alternative, unconventional routes and methods, and you were prepared to risk your life as a worst case scenario in the process. 51 years later, I still wonder at how my dying would have felt like had we been discovered that night. What would have happened had the man fallen in the middle of the river, and the currents had taken me? We used to hear of many, many people drowning in the river while attempting to cross into, and from South Africa.

51 years later, human-trafficked children suffer and survive incomparable ordeals over the Mediterranean. For those who do finally make it to Europe, many will have died not only at sea, but the many transit points in North Africa on the one side of the Mediterranean and Red Seas, and the Middle East on the other. I can’t help but wonder where and how these surviving children will be 51 years ahead.

The fact that endless streams of so many, many thousands of people in our time continually go out with rock-hard, clearly well-thought-out determination to seek to defy the meanest odds in order to get to Europe ought to serve as more than enough proof that imperfect and decadent as it may be, the Western way of life remains the most human needs and aspirations fulfilling of all. Western countries of Democracy are lands of promise. Democracy is a beautiful thing, worth dying for, for its enlivenment and propagation in one’s country; worth dying for in the pursuit of living in it in far away lands if conditions at home are impossible. Democracy frees the human spirit, inspires hope, enhances faith, facilitates for and enables unleashing of maximum human creative potential and expression.

Democracy is a tool for lasting and durable human development in the service of humanity’s sustenance and sustainability against challenges of living and life in, and with nature. Perhaps the most endearing thing about Democracy is its humane aspect, where the individual has the right to choose to live their lives as they see and deem fit for themselves as individuals, or specific collectives sharing common beliefs and norms. Because Democracy is what it is, it is so to the extent that it is measured against other systems of human society organization and engineering. Therefore, Democracy does have its own boundaries and limitations, as defined and expressed in each a democratic country’s constitution and laws. You choose to love or hate Democracy as you will, just don’t seek to destroy it where it thrives well and good in its acknowledged imperfect nature, as it does in various ways in many a progressive Western country. To those who want to hang themselves, Democracy gives them abundant access to the ropes.

I contend that the worst tragedy for many survivors who do eventually make it, and settle into Western Europe, as well as other democratic countries of the world, is not so much the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) arising from their escape travel ordeals, or tyrannical experiences in countries of origin. Many of these people get it all completely wrong by egoistically exploiting the newly-found, rather broad and wide, extremely tolerant freedom of choice and expression platforms taken for granted here. What boggles the mind is the ever single-minded determination by many of these people to want, at every cost, to reproduce the very oppressive and inhumane conditions they ran away from, from their own countries of origin in the first place. These people seem never to ever want to take time to introspect, compare and contrast the real human existence conditions between what they find here relative to where they come from. But then again, the core of how these people will ultimately organize their lives lies not in man-made life philosophies and their operative institutions.

There are forces called religion, and culture. These house, and express in various ways the attributes and nature of God, the creator of heaven and earth. It doesn’t matter even if God created different parts of the world unequally, such that in those parts of the world where religion and God are most highly exalted, the human condition is often at its most appalling, with disease, ignorance, poverty, inequalities, and exploitation of the weak and fragile at their most rampant, and non-apologetic. Whether or not by intention, these people have made God the original, and biggest segregationist, as well as racist of first order. In the real world, Democracy if understood and left alone, all (can) live harmoniously side-by-side with respect, honour, and dignity, within the operational boundaries of Democracy itself, as well as God through religion and culture.

No one is born a child of God. People are born to be children of God as a matter of personal choice, or through coercion, if not persuasion. No one is born with religion encoded within their genetic make up. People learn about religion, and so choose to be religious as a conscious act, persuasion, and/ or through coercion. No one is born religious. No one is born Atheist. No one is born Animist, Buddhist, Christian, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim, or Taoist.  People are born into religions, and other systems of belief, including cultures, traditions, as well as other systems of thought seeking to make sense of the human condition and its existential imperatives, both material and otherwise. Blessed are those born in times and spaces of Democracy; here shall all men, women, and children of the world aspire to be, paying the ultimate price to get there if need be.

To the extent that Democracy permits people to be real, giving them chances to be rational and critical about the big questions of life and living, including whether to die or not in its pursuit, attainment, cultivation, and preservation, its enemies can never, and will never crush it. Great harm and damage may be caused in the short term, but, ultimately, Democracy shall prevail. Democracy is freedom, and all people of the world are born free. The duty and obligation of every living human being are to essentially work continually at enhancing freedom, its expression, and experience; such that all children of the world are not only born free, but are born into freedom. Freedom shall enable children of the world to travel the world freely, making, with no effort, the necessary behavioural changes necessary to adapt to any new environment. Freedom as an extension and expression of Democracy does not impose. Imposition applies force, force begets resistance; resistance creates conflict, conflict will often culminate in violence, and, subsequently, death. Democracy is pro-life. If and when Democracy kills, it will often be in extreme necessary self-preservation circumstances, an act which in itself does not make killing conditionally right, or justifiable. Democracy is also about doing what has to be done when it has to be done. Time will judge as to the moral justness or not of effecting what had to be done.

No religion and its attributes, neither culture nor belief system, are encoded in anybody’s genes through conception and birth. Faith gives religion a face, highlighting its tenets, defining its boundaries, specifying its systems of rewards and punishments, and not in the least, it’s supreme, all powerful and mighty being. Faith is the pathway between religion and God Almighty. What is encoded in the genetic make up of people is the infinite potential and capacity to learn and fantasize.

Because it is in the nature of nature to be unpredictable, human survival on earth depends on the full and constant use, as well as application of the potential and capacity to learn. This is, and this has been the only way for humans to solve and overcome challenges of life and living in/ with nature. Learning provides tools for effecting change, as well as effective living with it in changing times and circumstances. Fantasy allows, and is the expression of the human mind’s ability and capacity to apply the five senses to conceptualizing perceptions beyond the normal physical reality as we experience it on daily basis. Life Coaching inspired by Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP) seeks to broaden conscious awareness of the value and application of fantasy in relating to, and solving life’s ever present survival challenges.

Every word, every symbol, every thought, every action enlivens or subdues fantasy in variable ways according to time, space, and circumstances in relation to what we have learnt, what we have been taught. I can teach people new to the Western Democracy way of living to change their extremely exaggerated perceptions of Western society vis-à-vis their own imported religions and cultures. I can take these people on powerful fantasy trips that will show them that it actually is possible in reality to live in peace and harmony in the Western world. I can teach them that the Western world facilitates conditions for people to be nearer to, and understand their own God even more profoundly. Bombings, orgies of mass destruction, murder, oppression and exploitation of the weak and vulnerable can never be effective methods of creating a perfect world for a liberating, and loving God. This is a manifestation of extremely bad education, and human fantasy potential application gone totally wrong.

There is no better place to be a deeply religious, totally devoted to any God-of-choice-person than in the Western world today. Operating within the fully transparent and, if/ when necessary, contestable laws of the land defining the boundaries and limitations of Democracy, religious people of all faiths are ever happiest, and thrive more in the Western world as a matter of course. With my COOL Coaching® personal development training methods and techniques, I can help people from religious and political despotic, oppressive, repressive lands to settle well, and be decent value adding citizens in their new homelands; this done without in any way alienating them from their Gods and religions at all. On the contrary, experiencing the glory and power of God, living out one’s religion as a conscious personal journey of self-discovery, self-realization, self-knowledge, and self-reinvention can be the most liberating thing in so far as loving one’s God and creation go. Love of God is in practice a manifestation of love for the inner self, where love for humanity, understanding, tolerance, and the never ending urge to open one’s mind to new learning in/ with changing times and spaces reside. Welcome to the world of Western philosophical thought inspiration, and Democracy.

I shall receive and consider job offers from any organization, state or private (NGO), in any Western country working with the integration of immigrants as discussed above. Please download my CV (Pdf-fil).

Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
August 24, 2015


Greek Tragedy – Tragic Diaspora Myths

Simon Chilembo, CEO/ PresidentO edl’ ihlaza! That’s isiZulu language, South African poetry at its most elegant for you: You are eating it while it’s still green (read: You’re eating it raw)! Ever eaten an unripe fruit? Sure not the best of tastes, not the best of chews; like getting caught in the act with your lover’s best friend by your lover, on their own bed in their own house. Now, that’s one big screw up. Much as the acute diarrhoea and abdominal pains you’ll suffer after eating a green, unripe fruit. Assumption is that you don’t die. You dead, you fucked, it don’t matter no more. Wilfully eating an unripe fruit can also be indicative of the immaturity, ignorance, sheer stupidity, and lack of sophistication of the mind of the consumer, a green mind. Mind makes the person.

I live in constant simultaneous fascination and frustration by people, especially African pseudo-intellectuals and thinkers, analysts, philosophers, leaders, activists, nationalists, politicians, and others who are so hooked on the past in the name of often archaic cultures, traditions, religion, as well as parochial and false racial and tribal identity pride. When I am one who believes that the past comes as the present in a specific epoch in time and space, it does so, and goes only once. Once the paradigms and agents that feed and sustain a current epoch change, the past is spontaneously metamorphosized into what it is: A thing of the past, alive only in the furthest domains of the universe, to be partially captured in the great libraries and data bases of the world. Some mystics will delve into the past to, in reality, mystify further the present for many a green mind persons, selling blue illusions about the future. But, for now, the future must wait. The present is intriguing enough.

The past cannot replicate itself, which is just as well. The value of the past lies in it being an infinite source of knowledge and inspiration for the benefit of the present according to the contemporary epoch, as defined shaped, and driven by its paradigms and mover/ creative agents, as well as forces. If the past could replicate itself, whereas the world would ever be delighted over every new Madiba, every new Great Wall of China, every new Steve Jobs, every new Da Vinci, every new Mozart, every new Soyinka, every new Apollo 11, to name but a few, who would want to see a new Hitler reborn, to name but one? Or Stalin? Amin? Mao Tse-Tung? Saddam? The Plague? South Africans are sure happy that there will only be one JZ, and one Juju in the country’s history. Should Zimbabweans be cursed with another tyrant, it certainly will never be Garakahundi genocide executor Bob. Only thick, die-hard White racist dick heads in South Africa anticipate, and strive for a rebirth of the doomed fascist Apartheid state in the country. It will never ever rematerialize. It’ll never be the same: A most profound statement. O’vious.

Neither does reincarnation replicate the reincarnate to the bone. Reincarnation is change; it is total transformation in the future, for the future. Reincarnation negates the past, and stagnation, for better and/or for worse. Say you die an asshole today; if reincarnation does actually get to work for you, you are likely to come back as a seven-legged cow in India, or something, somewhere; perhaps as an even bigger, filthier asshole living in some underground sewage canals in Tirana somewhere. Or you might also come back as a zombie in Jamaica, if not as Queen of England. In time, all youth in little Norway would perish, and the country would have no government were Breivik to reincarnate in the same form over and over again.

If the past could replicate itself, the Pharaohs of Egypt would have long grounded their own pyramids and come back to fix Africa’s problems, at least heavily troubled Egypt itself. But that’s Obama’s mission today, here and now; a man of the future this epoch.

The greatest thing about Jesus is the power he had to, in a timeless fashion, convince people of his imminent coming back to earth sometime. For generations after generations since his death, millions upon millions of people across the world do the most wondrous of things in his name, in anticipation of his glorious return one day soon, even today, perhaps. Sinners, beware! Jesus does not seem to be in a hurry, though; it’s only been two thousand years. In the meantime, the Middle East, his former playground, is one awesome valley of death both sides of the Mediterranean, where children and women in the living bathe in blood everyday; they have even forgotten how roses smell. Other great prophets from the living Jesus’ era in the Middle East have created monsters of millions of their own followers the world over.  Were the latter to win their so-called holy wars, there would not be much of humanity, order, and beauty left for the great prophets upon their illusory promised returns to earth. Which reminds me of the Greeks.

I went knocking on the doors of the Europe via Greece, Christmas time 1985. I never had to walk across the Sahara into Libya, then attempt to walk over the Mediterranean on an extremely precariously overcrowded coastal fishing boat. I instead landed at the Athens International Airport late one December night, got into a taxi, street-wise Rapper’s Delighted the rather dubious looking driver and his friend extra passenger that Jim Kelly was my cousin, and my relationship with Bruce Lee was at a tea-drinking-together level; I was visiting Greece at the invitation of The Legendary Great Greek Karate Grand Master Bill Zahopoulos, family of Greek king, teacher of the army, personal friend and ex-training partners with Chuck Norris. I was driven safely to a fine inner city hotel, where I was given a then unprecedented VIP treatment as a big Karate Star from America. Be on the look out for my new movie with Jim Kelly, Chuck Norris, and Bill Wallace in the summer of next year, 1986. Of course, of course, I yam happy very much to sign for you autographs, my special friends! Yes, yes, I see you tomorrow tonight, m-m-maybe. Green people.

To the extent that, in the eyes of some of my hosts, I only had my physical Karate power and prowess to offer, and nothing more, I was a stereotypical poor little boy from the African jungle somewhere. Out of natural humility, basic human decency, and unsuppressed expressions of gratitude over most overwhelming generousity, I would let many of my hosts get away with a lot of rude and uncultured behaviour towards me. I was indeed a spectacle for some of these people, many of whom had never ever been anywhere near a Black African person live before. They also seemed to think that I had no brains. I guess to them I was a full deep green Black man-thing: I looked green, I smelled green, I spoke green, I walked green, I ate green, I fucked green, I shit green, just like the evergreen Congo jungle. But, just like wisdom and knowledge transcend race, colour, or creed; immaturity, ignorance, sheer stupidity, and lack of intellectual sophistication are universal phenomena. There are green people who eat unripe fruit everyday everywhere, including Greece.

My next visits to my old friends in Greece would be 1996/7. This time I am coming from Norway, my Afro greenness completely shed off. I have money, I have attitude, I am Norsk Super Power, I am not alone; my Karate students have joined me. The stereotype of a forever poor, weak, and vulnerable little African boy is crushed to a pulp. But that of a stupid, ignorant, misguided little green African jungle boy remains, it would seem.

One afternoon, at a holiday seaside resort in Central Greece, I happened to be chilling by myself on the beach when three local men join me. There are no other Black African people here. After introductions, I break the ice by saying to the men that I am Greek man born in Africa by mistake. All laugh heartily. Then one of them asks, “You the boss? You know, boss of the Norway people?”
I tell them that I am not like boss-boss, but the Norway people are my Karate students; I am their teacher.
George then spits it out in one long breath, “Is the same thing, Simon. You are the teacher, you are the boss. Is good, because you are a Greek man. Africa is not for you, that is why you have come to your home. We the Greek people have the greatest teachers in the world throughout history. That is why we are the rulers of the world all the time. The African people they are stupid because they don’t understand Greek teachers who build the pyramids for them. That is why Africa is poor. They say the pyramids were build by the Pharaohs who were Black African people, but these were the Greek kings, you know. Great Greek teachers of mathematics, philosophy, and engineering architecture go all over the world to teach people many years before. They build the Great Wall of China, all the pyramids in Mexico, all of South America, everywhere. What people don’t know is that the Incas were the Greek people. The Greek language is a difficult language for not Greek people, that is why people don’t understand that the Greek people are the best. We are the past of human history, and the future of the world it is only the Greek people who can make it. That is why everybody is coming back to Greece. The Olympics are coming back to Greece not by mistake because some people make understand …”
I find this extremely amusing in its vainness, concluding that these guys are here to thrash and put me in my place. Well, if they want to eat it raw, it’s their problem, not mine. Green people suck.

Kristos continued, “You see, Simon, my brother, we can tell you all this with confidence because all the information is written down in the great books of the world. Go in any library in the world, it’s all there. We know because we the Greek people invented how to write. Strong people like the Greek people write and read information of the truth, and all truth is Greek, not African. The African people fail to write and read many, many years before. We know that the University of Timbuktu was a Greek university, like the Alexandria University in Egypt. If people can only understand history, they will understand that we the Greek people have all the knowledge and power to make the world beautiful again like when Aristotle was born. Greece was great power before, that’s very important to understand. Even all the Martial Arts of the world come from Greece, before the China people say they make Kung Fu. Marco Polo was a Greek man too; he took Karate and Kung Fu to the oriental people. We have evidence from Pankthratheon fighting of the Greek people. There are drawings and writings about the art in all museums of Greece. Greek people are really great; they even teach the world about the philosophia of Democracy. But the world, especially Africa, does not fully understand what Democracy is. That is why problems, problems everywhere …”

In the end, I told the three guys that the Greek all round greatness of the past will never come back, it’s gone forever. The real, functional world today is run by leaders of today, whose common goal is to move the world forward. I told them that the most successful and the most powerful countries in the world today are those which work to address the needs of their people today for a better tomorrow. No country will ever move forward by dwelling on, and being complacent over the glories of the past, claiming all round superiority over others. The world is led today by the economic, technological, and industrial giants of the day, and these do not include Greece, present, or past, unfortunately. Knowledge and creative hubs feeding and sustaining the existence, as well as existential paradigms of the world today are not based in Greece …

Greece is today drowning in the tragic ocean of arrogance of its myths of historical greatness and global cultural superiority.
Yes, Greece, O edl’ ihlaza! Reality, not myths, rules the progressive world of our times.

Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
July 25, 2015


Schooling in the Diaspora – Kamwala Secondary School

©Simon Chilembo, 2014

©Simon Chilembo, 2014

1975 was the longest year. My first calendar year in Zambia was nine months long, which felt like time barely existed, with no beginning I recalled being part of, no end, and no direction in sight. Time was an idea just there to relate to indifferently.

The three months on the rails and road it took my family and me to get to Zambia from South Africa had bruised my sense of reality, presenting life’s challenges in a totally new way, and intensity. My family relations internal dynamics changed in ways that many mistakes made along the way have never been repairable. New things learnt we each processed and integrated each in our own individual lives, each in our own unique personal ways. I often like to think that the extremely high senses of individuality, and independence my two siblings and I will exhibit in critical choice times, and/ situations, were consolidated during this time. Although we are all three each in our own ways very sensitive, emotional, and compassionate, it is others other than our nuclear family unit who have largely derived benefits from these qualities the most over time.

Due to lack of schooling, in the stillness, and seemingly open-endedness of time in 1975 in Lusaka, Zambia, I first became conscious of, and related to my spontaneous inclination to want to think about, and reflect on my direct experience, or external observations of the sociology of things in social interactions with other people at all levels, in different settings, and circumstances. I would spend hours on end in solitude, wondering as to how/ why people will behave in certain ways in given situations. Although I did not know anything about research at that time, I had already figured it out that there was much to learn about human behaviour in books. So, my uncle’s private home library became the perfect hide out for me. I had never before been surrounded by so many books on all sorts of subjects, as well as magazines, journals, and newspapers, including novels.

I read ever so much on various random topics, underlining texts, and taking notes after notes: There was crime, politics, business, law, history, psychology, culture, art, romance, sex, there was everything. Now I know that my interest in writing crystallized itself here also. I used to fantasize about other curious and clever children and youths reading books I’ll have written on things sometime in the future. Later, a younger uncle came on the scene, and introduced the concept of going out for walks. We would go on these silent, long walks round our suburb, Roma Township. These would on the one hand help me digest all the stuff I would have read earlier on, and I would crave immensely for the next reading session, on the other. I still enjoy long walks of thought, and reflection to this day. I walk, and dream. I walk, and find solutions to challenges in my life. In my sleep, dreams come to me as if in open books. When I write about it, chances are I’ll have seen it in a dream.

1976 was the slowest year. I recall walking to and from Olympia Primary School in Lusaka that academic year, feeling my feet heavy as if I were walking in pools of treacle. I had no school shoes for a large part of the year. Going to school, I’d squeeze my Size 8 feet into a Size 7 brown pair of shoes inherited from my father. A very painful experience. Walking from school, I’d take off the shoes, hold them in my hand, and foot it home. I associate the month of October not so much with Zambia’s national day on the 24th, but the burning hot ground under my shoeless school feet in 1976.  For the most part, my head was clear for the obligatory things I just had to do, such as going to school, and being a good boy. It was bad enough to lose yet another year of schooling the previous year; to have to repeat Grade 7 in 1976 because my South African Grade 7 results from 1974 were not recognized in Zambia, crushed my passion for education.

Being a relatively big, sharp 16 year old with a deep voice and very hairy legs in Grade 7 was not the coolest thing. I had to endure a lot of ridicule and degrading comments from some most unkind people in many places. For example, a group of Roma Girls’ Secondary School day scholars used to intimidate me bad kind as we would go past one another everyday from school. One day, perhaps 10-20 of them, in unison shouted menacingly at me, “You are fit to be in Form 5!” That is how and when I lost the ambition, motivation, and interest to study to be a Doctor when grown up, thinking I’d be too old by the time I’m done with school, if ever. All I wanted to do was to be a musician and songwriter with a big band to hide myself in. A few good friendships, as well as a sweet, kind, and understanding lady class teacher with a Botswana background tremendously helped me pull through the year successfully, though. There was also a mobile library visiting the school every so often. More books, pure Joy. I bull-dozed my way, and first borrowed the book White Man’s Burden against the librarian’s recommendation. Heavy reading which gradually helped me understand better the workings of colonialism in time.

Simon Chilembo, Witness Ndemanga

With Witness Ndemanga (Late, MHSRIP), Kamwala Secondary School, 1977-79. ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

1977 was the most hopeful year. When I came into Form 1 (Grd 8) at Kamwala Secondary School that year, it was with mixed feelings. I was emotionally drained, angry and bitter at the world. What with the killings of my fellow school children in the Soweto student uprising on June 16, 1976! I was on a daily basis reading in newspapers about the continuing killings and disappearances of more school children all over South Africa. The first wave of South African post-Soweto June 16 juvenile refugees had already begun to arrive in Lusaka. At a personal level, I really saw no point in continuing with school when I could as well go and join our ANC MK cadres involved in the direct fight for the liberation of my country, South Africa. But the South African pupils I found in higher grades at the school, having lived in Zambia longer already, instilled a special kind of hope in me, assuring me that those grown ups in MK were doing a good job as things were. What we, as the youth, had to do was to focus on getting the highest educational qualifications because our most important mission was to be bright and brilliant leaders of the soon to be liberated South Africa. It made sense to me. At last there were people I could relate to here. We wore long pants, white shirts, and ties. So cool! And, people were so mature here, I thought. The five years of schooling at Kamwala Secondary School would turn out to be a surprising journey of bitter sweet memories.

Academically, the thrill and fun of education returned in no time. Being a brilliant, class top grades student had always been my thing, winning me lots of friends and admirers any time. For the first time in my life I have non-Black African classmates, a big “Wow!” for a teenager from Apartheid South Africa. The apparent natural flair for Maths and the Natural Sciences of my Asian/ Indian classmates ignited in me a fierce competitive spirit, especially during the first three years of the secondary school education. It goes without saying that I soon developed close friendships with many of these Asian/ Indian classmates of mine. Some would invite me to lunches at their homes, and such was my genuine gastrosexual love for Indian cuisine ignited. What was odd, though, about my relationship with these kids was that they were all 4-6 years younger than me. When I was 17 years old in Grade 8, Prakash, the tiniest of them all, had barely turned 11! Anele, my would-be best friend in the world, had just turned 12. All this did not bother me at all; I was just fascinated and charmed by the brain powers of these kids. This was a whole new world of curiosity and discovery for me.

Socially, I never was any impressive success due to, among other things, personal and family circumstances, as well as deliberate choices arising from these. I could never figure out, though, how, despite my popularity as a smart, most sociable guy, eventually becoming a national Karate Sports Super Star, was unable to, for instance, mobilize harems of nubile young women followers. At school, while I could overtly mutually flirt with older lady teachers to the steamiest of wet dreams on my part, the younger ones would often tend to be very hostile and extremely defensive towards me. Many a younger male teacher would become so hostile that, already as early as in Form 1 (Grd 8), I came close to a fight over a girl with one of them. Thinking of that man makes me nauseous to this day. It wasn’t until about October 2014, 33 years after leaving Kamwala Secondary School, that it finally dawned upon me how the age factor had a decisive role to play in all this.

Esperanza, “Shall we meet in Lusaka during Christmas time, then, Simon? Perhaps you want to join me in my 50th birthday celebrations as I do some Community Work project to mark the occasion?”
Simon, “Now, wait a minute, Dearest, you mean, I am actually 4 years older than you?”
Esperanza, “So, you didn’t know?”
Simon, “So, in Form 1 at Kamwala, when I was 17, you were 13?”
Esperanza, laughing, “That’s the arithmetic!”
Simon, “Holy shit, is that why you never wanted to be my girlfriend, then? I remember how angry you got with me the day I proposed”
Esperanza, more laughter, “You scared the hell out of me, man. You were ever so big and looking far too strong. In my eyes, you could have been an uncle of mine, or something. You seemed more mature, and more sophisticated than some of the male teachers, even; these guys had such bad taste in style! There was no way you could have been my boyfriend, then, man. And, besides, we couldn’t understand how you could be classmates with us, when your age mates were either in Form 5 (Grd 12), if not going to university already. When we realized you were as intelligent as you turned out to be, we became even more uncomfortable around you”
Simon, “But many other guys my age at 17 hit it off on a regular basis with many of you little girls”
Esperanza, “True. But there was more prestige for a 12-13 year old girl going out with a 17 year old guy in senior grades. On the other hand, a 21 year old guy in Form 5, as was your case later, is far too old for normal age secondary school girls. Moreover, a 15-16 old girl in Form 5 is most likely to have her eyes and things set on guys beyond secondary school level. So, you probably would have had to play it rough in order to get to date the young girls at school. However, I can say today that I am happy you never pushed anybody. You are such a gentleman. That’s why we love you still, you know!”
Simon, teasing, “Argh, it doesn’t help much now, does it? You with your husband, kids, cats, and dogs. By the way, does he know that It Should Have Been Me? Phfff!”

Done with Kamwala, during the middle of the 1982-83 academic year, I am fast heading towards age 23. I’m deep in the groove of things rocking the world, looking forward to becoming eventually a big Economist at the Bank of Zambia upon my graduation in 1986. I have just become third time Zambian National Karate Kata Champion, and in the same package, got my first most coveted Karate Black Belt Degree. Guess who feels King on top of the world? At a party well-attended by University of Zambia intellectual and academic elite, a sickeningly condescending Professor strikes a conversation with me, “Well, it is well and good that you are the hottest Karate thing at UNZA at the moment. But aren’t you rather too old to be in first year, then? I mean, surely, some of your age mates started graduating from UNZA two years ago already! What’s happened to you, old chap?”
Ooops, here we go again. Lord, have mercy.

Thinking about it, if you have a brilliant, beautiful daughter in Grd 8 at age 11, she’ll be First Year at university at 16. And, verily, verily, I say to unto thee, once upon a time, there were sharks at UNZA …

Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
July 23, 2015


COMMUNITY SERVICE – Diasporant’s Payback Time

Simon Chilembo, Founder/ President/ CEO, Chilembo Media PromotionsComing back home to Mamma, July 01, 2013, I was a broken man. Tired both physically and mentally, emotionally torn, bitter at my vain enemies and ill-wishers, overwhelmed by betrayals, over-burdened by failed business in rough economic times, and looming personal bankruptcy, I found it prudent to let it all go. I was not ready to die yet. If and when my dying day finally comes, I will be standing on the battle ground like a true Warrior, having accomplished my mission on earth. All I needed was a time-out to realign my thoughts, my feelings, and my visions; I needed to revise my values, and put my faith to test by exposing myself to temptation. Evil has yet to conquer, if ever.

Quickly discovering that reality was not, and would not turn out to be as I had expected and hoped it would be back home to Mamma, The Lone Ranger in me reminded me, “On your own again, Tiger!”
But, bloody ‘ell, man, you know how broke I am. What can I, what am I going do without any money?
“Community Service, Dude!” barked the Lone Ranger.

Elizabeth Moodley, Dipl. CNCm® Therapist. ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Elizabeth Moodley, Dipl. CNCm® Therapist. Here after receiving Level II Practitioner Certificate on Julyn 18, 2014.
©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Nelson Mandela International Day 2013 finds me doing my 67 Minutes work second time around, this occasion at Bronville Old Age Home. Assigned to assist me is Ms Elizabeth Moodley, on attachment from Community Work Programme (CWP), Matjhabeng Region, Welkom. In no time I get to register that the lady is my kind of woman: Big, strong, imposing, mature, charismatic, self-confident, aware of own feminity, leader type, good communicator, dedicated to duty, structured and organized, Nosizwe (Mother-Of-The-Nation) type, generous, kind, patient, resilient, eager to learn, ambitious, future-oriented, and, later, dependable, as well as trustworthy confidant. Privately she’s a single parent mother, on a meagre income working hard to keep it together for her children, as well as the grandchildren. Because she often goes beyond the call of duty to help in all kinds of emergencies both at the Old Age Home, as well as the neighbourhood, Elizabeth is a well-known community member who commands a lot of respect and admiration from her colleagues in the Community Work Programme. And, like many a South African township born and bred, she’s been there, done that in her time.

With limited resources, and in not the best clinic facility I have ever seen, Elizabeth, without any previous formal professional health care education, both efficiently and effectively carried out basic primary health care procedures for the Old Age Home residents, as well as other needy community members in the immediate neighbourhood, including the wider Welkom city environs. The appreciation, respect, and love her clients showed her touched me profoundly. There and then I decided I wanted to give more substance to the title Sister (a preserve for trained Nurses in South Africa) the clients affectionately used in their interaction with Elizabeth.

The Lone Ranger, “You see, Dude, right now, your knowledge and skills are needed here much more than all the money you could ever give any time. Let’s forget about cash and its trappings for a while. Just think about all the money you have spent on people elsewhere over the years. Except only one case, which of these people have made any good for themselves from the monies you’ve spent on and for them? This time you’ll use only your physical touch to bring improved health and life quality experience to the people here, and you’ll teach Elizabeth all she needs to know in this regard as well. You are here to change lives in a real and lasting way, believe it or not”
Tjaaa, but I need to get my business off the ground again, or even get a job. How am I going to do all this? How long will it take, anyway? I still have things to do and fix in Norway, you know.
The Lone Ranger, “But you are almost ruined by business, remember? Job? What job? Phfff, you are 53 years old, Dude. People go on retirement at 55 in South Africa, you know. It’ll take as long as it takes. Norway will wait for you, don’t worry”
Ok, let’s do this. A man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do!

Words of thanks, and prayers from local Pastors. Elizabeth Moodley, Dipl. CNCm® Therapist. ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Words of thanks, and prayers from community Pastors.
Elizabeth Moodley, Dipl. CNCm® Therapist.
©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Perhaps the most fun part of working with Elizabeth was right at the beginning, when I had to win her confidence and trust, first and foremost. Having quickly convinced her of my genuineness as an expert professional Health & Wellness Therapist, I had to make her understand that I was not here to take over her job. What I in fact wanted to do was to empower her with new, high value professional international Therapeutic Massage Therapy training and education that would open a whole new world of career and professional opportunities for her in the whole of South Africa, and beyond. All for free, as part of my own voluntary Community Service Project work at the Bronville Old Age Home. She being a Coloured in South African parlance, there was also a need to break down her Apartheid induced personal racial insecurities and doubts issues, which still exist on a wide scale in the country, twenty-one years down the line.

It has given me great joy to observe and follow how Elizabeth’s aura of power, influence, and authority of a skilled, people-oriented Health & Wellness Therapist, specializing in Chilembo Nordic Chi massasje® (CNCm®) have grown in leaps and bounds during the last two years we’ve worked together. It was with profound pride, and personal satisfaction to present her with my first Chilembo Nordic Chi massasje® (CNCm®) Therapist Diploma on June 11, 2015, in South Africa. Congratulations!

  • Advanced Therapeutic Massage Therapy theory and practice
  • Intermediate Reflexology theory and practice
  • Communication Skills/ Counseling: COOL Coaching® Introduction
  • Duration: July 18, 2013 – June 11, 2015
Party time! ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Party time!
©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Elizabeth’s graduation ceremony turned out to be a moving event the magnitude and organizational significance of which I had never expected. CWP engagement ensured that the event lasted all day long, with lots of festivitas all the way. Some of CWP colleagues turned up in full traditional Basotho and AmaXhosa party gears, giving the occasion more colour, inspiring much song and dance, as well as poetry. Great fun indeed. Much as Elizabeth’s family were there to witness the special event, my mother, my younger sister, and an aunt were there too. In the ensuing prayers and speeches by various speakers, words of praise, encouragement, and hope were said.
Many were touched by the fact that I voluntarily imparted such high value knowledge and skills to Elizabeth for free, despite the fact that it, towards the end, had become general knowledge that I was actually broke, with no regular source of income all this time. In my response, I thanked the people, reminding them that Ubuntu in action works in many ways. To get to work the way I did with Elizabeth, as well as the clinical work we both did as a team at the Old Age Home provided an invaluable personal therapeutic healing trip for me too.
This has been a win-win situation for all, amply demonstrating that, indeed, motho ke motho ka batho/ a person is a person consequent of other’s existence (no man is an island). But now I had to go back to my world. When the Diaspora calls, few can desist. My hope and wish are that Elizabeth continues with the good work. I have a keen interest in knowledge and skills acquisition for adults, if anything for the adults to be inspirations and role models for the young and the youth. Ignorant and non-resourceful adults have little potential to guide and inspire socially congruent behaviour in children and youth. I will back. The best is yet to come.

I am still alive. With the formal opening of my insolvency case in Norway recently, I am now in practice much poorer than I was two years ago. It looks like exactly two years was the time-out period I needed. It is indeed a nerve-wrecking challenge to do big things without cash. I could not have done the work above without the support of my mother, and especially my younger sister, the latter who has, for all intents and purposes, looked after me during all this time. Given public transport difficulties in Welkom, the ladies gave me free access to, and use of their car in my weekly sojourns to the Bronville Old Age Home. There are also eight very close friends of mine (South Africa, Norway, UK) who have done more than I could ask for to help me pull through this challenging period, allowing me to “play” with my time, knowledge, and skills as I worked to heal my mind, body, and soul.

To have been allowed to work with the elderlies, other sick, weak, and vulnerable members of the community at the Old Age Home, was a most rewarding experience I shall remain grateful for all my days. Working with the poorest of the poor, and the most vulnerable of people anywhere, including the sickest of the sick fallen out of the normal social health services mainstream has given me a new perspective to life.

When I soon shall return to Norway for good, I do so feeling stronger and more alive than ever before. I look forward to starting from zero level again. I will be solvent again in time, pay my debts, save up, invest, be rich again, and live happily ever after one more time. Money is nothing but numbers. Numbers, well, either you have them or you don’t. You want numbers you make them. Simple, just work; get the arithmatic right. Bring them on!

Meanwhile, Elizabeth has started dreaming of the next level already: Further studies up to Master Therapist certification in Norway. I have to up my act now …

Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
July 05, 2015


– Life After Death? –
Existential Questions In The Diaspora

Especially due regard to all those who depart of this our plant earth in the most untimely, the most tragic manner and circumstances – Victims of global terrorism, wars, and all sorts of violent crimes, including competently ill-managed curable maladies, as well as all kinds of accidents, and natural disasters. I also declare solidarity with, and the most humane sensitivity possible to the ever deep sense and feelings of loss, as well as distress, to all who lose/ have lost their beloved ones in any way the ever sad eventuality occurs/ has occurred.

Simon Chilembo, President/ CEOThere is no life after death. Death is an express one-way ticket ride, out and far away from planet earth. If it has a distinct destination, then the place death takes souls of the dead to is a place totally unlike earth, totally detached from earth, totally giving bull about whether planet earth exists or not. When you die, no matter how, when you are dead, there not only is no turning back; there is no looking back either. Death is an absolute end to life and its attributes on earth, as well as the rest of the fathomable universe. We live only once, that’s it.

There is no place called hell located somewhere in the darkest of recesses of the universe beneath planet earth somewhere. You burn alive for your sins in numerous ways and possibilities right here on planet earth. When you die, often doing so as you lived as a sinner, you thank God it’s over, for, you know, it is here on earth the fire is real. Phoenixes rising from ashes are things of mythology meant to inspire ideas of reflection, and critical thinking about life, and the living here on earth.

You atone for your sins, God rewards you with heaven thrown into your hands in the living here on planet earth. If you are not living it already, the day you wake up not only feeling it, but also knowing with tangible earthly evidence in any recognizable form that you are living your consciously and deliberately chosen dream as a free citizen in a free world, then you have received heaven in your hands. You can then design and build your world according to your visions and tastes, populating it with all the beauty, joy, and happiness you choose; sharing it all with all those you choose because you love them. Heaven is a place called earth, living side-by-side with hell; two sides of the same coin eternally turning round and round till death calls. When you die, you thank God for the music, the light, the blessings, the abundance of it all on the heaven side of the coin you chose to live. You lived, you created, you loved; you played your game well. Amen. But your heaven, because it is an earth thing, remains behind as a matter of course. Yes, Jobs’ gone, Apple’s here; keeps the world moving. Life goes on.

Overwhelmed by maddening real flames of earthly hell fire, and through ignorance and fear of the unknown, those remaining behind will construct giant pyramids and shrines, thinking and solemnly believing they are preserving for you the heaven you created for yourself while in the living. What bull, you ain’t gonna come back, you ain’t gonna look back. Any archaeologist knows this fact just too well. Hello, Tutankhamen! Then, evil reigns, creating myths and monsters, supreme Gods and holy angels for those remaining behind to blindly worship and glorify. These, not knowing, or not wanting to take responsibility for creating the hell they have arsoned for themselves on earth, transposing heaven to such fantastic outer realms of human existence it is possible to get there only by living life on earth in line with the most impossible, if not most grotesque rules, rituals, and life choices human beings on earth can be subjected to. Some are even willing to offer and pay the ultimate price in their ever futile and doomed efforts to knock on non-existent heaven’s doors ludicrously and falsely envisioned beyond planet earth.

It is both scientifically and philosophically not objectively possible that hell and heaven are experiential realms outside the material world, the material universe, as we understand them to be today. Hell as a place of endless super heat flames of fire functioning as the final perpetual roasting place for sinners negates contemporary moral and ethical thought. So does heaven, if the way into it has to be the longest, the most arduous; turning people into social deviants, psychopaths, as they live in constant extreme fear of/ for failing to live up to the commands and demands of their religions. These commands and demands often go against the most basic natural aspects, and instincts of being a free human being, both in thought, sentiment, and action. Religion and its beliefs being used as the vehicle to heaven, where God supposedly abodes, is in parallel used by some to get many a made psychopath to execute some of the most abominable acts of violence against humanity, all in the promise and outrageous belief that the perpetrators will have free and direct access into heaven somewhere above, to enjoy a never-ending life of super opulence, with ever abundant supplies of nubiles for all-time satisfaction of needs of the flesh. All this is self-contradictory, non-scientific, amoral, and non-ethical, defying progressive modern, free world conventional and radical philosophical thought, as well as practice.

Upon my having become a certain critical age a lifetime ago in Lusaka, Zambia, my father carried out a special male bonding cleansing ritual at dusk of this one day. Afterwards, I had to join him to go out and dispose of the concoction of stuff used in the ceremony. We had to find a busy, but distant pedestrian crossroads from our neighbourhood. Rolled in a piece of chitenge cloth, we lay the mixture in the middle of the crossroads, but only after having made absolutely sure that we saw no one coming by. It was equally important that nobody saw us at this point either. Done deal. Before we turned to walk away, with darkness now upon us, Pappa, in an uncharacteristically guttural voice, commanded me not to look backwards once we’ve taken the first steps to walk back in the direction of our house. “Remember the story of Sodom and Gomorrah in the Bible, Buti!” He further implored me to avoid finding myself in this part of the neighbourhood for as long as possible. I never looked back, never went back.

Pappa would later explain three full moons gone later, “What is supposed to happen is that anytime from as soon as we’ve turned our backs on the parcel to dawn, one of your most ancient vagabond ancestors will come to clean up the crossroads, taking with her the parcel further in her wonderings. Legend has it that she is so old, and elements-beaten that the sight of her is scarier than the most scary horror movie character you can ever conjure up. Were you to lay your eyes on this figure, you shall live, but you’ll never be able to tell the story. How many plausible tales can a mentally deranged person tell, Buti, my son?

“Occasionally, it does happen that some stupid person arrives at the disposal scene before the ancient one does. If they see, but ignore the parcel, all shall be well with them. Were they to step on it intentionally, or touch it in any way, an abnormal physiological condition incapacitating coherent speech, and ability to describe things in any way shall befall them. Were they to take and open the parcel, then, instant mental derangement, as well as incurable blindness shall be their fate. Therefore, you are not to look back because were you to see a person begin to suffer as a result of messing around with the parcel, dire emotional issues will burden all your living days on earth. You will never, you can never ever be free as a human being from seeing another human being suffer as a result of fallouts of your traditional life rituals, or beliefs.

Symbolically, the parcel contains unwanted, dead aspects, call them sins, of each our own lives shaping our mutual relationship with each other as father and son. The crossroads reminds us that although life can be lived in any direction, it ultimately all culminates at one point in the centre, death. Placing the parcel at the crossroads represents burial. What happens after death is really worry for the living, not the dead. The symbolism of not looking back is that death must never hold the living back, life must go on. While allowing for natural human curiosity, ideally, once buried, the dead ought to be left alone. Those who through, wilful intention or otherwise, temper with the dead may discover things too heavy to make sense of for an ordinary human mind in the living. That explains the great personal misfortunes upon the one who shall touch the parcel. Why not bury the parcel totally out of sight underground, then, you might ask? Well, Buti, beware of temptations. If and when you delve into the unknown for whatever reason, there may be dire outcomes. A man shall deal with them as they come, the good and/ or the bad consequences of his own actions”

Indeed, life on earth must go on because there really is no life after death. And life on earth is good for the sound-minded and rational. If, for argument’s sake, there is life after death, then it’s a paradise teeming with raving mad lunatics. They look back, and return to earth, calling it reincarnation, and yet again fail to make sense of it all the good life of the living on earth. Turning planet earth into hell, they then engage in orgies of the most horrendous of murders worldwide. People have died by the millions over time, others continue killing themselves by the thousands, yet no heaven’s doors beyond planet earth ever seem to open. The situation gets worse all the time. If God is there somewhere above, I am convinced he is stone deaf, blind as a bat in daylight. People sing glory in his name at killing everything and everybody, including their own. But nothing ever changes for the better. This God must be lame, and neurologically incapable. In that case then, here is yet another negation of any possibility of any existence of life after death. If there is, it’s not worth the extreme troubles many believers go through in his name. Life begins, and ends here on planet earth. Punktum. Face it!

Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
July 01, 2015


Diaspora Friendship, Brotherly Love Celebration

Anele Malumo, WA2015 ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

Anele Malumo, Waloba Award 2015
©Simon Chilembo, 2015

To introduce the recipient of Waloba Award 2015, I take the liberty of reproducing an edited version of my speech to him on his 50th birthday earlier in 2015:

  • You don’t know what it’s like
    To love somebody
    To love a Brother
    The way I love you …
  • Modern, enlightened, liberated men happily declare their love for one another openly even if their love is not of a physically intimate nature. Some call it Bromance. In any case, in South Africa, land of the free, home of the brave, people love who they love, as provided for, and enshrined in the constitution of the land.
  • I’ve heard it said somewhere that if you are not grown up yet by age 50, forget it, you’ll never grow up.
    – But you, Boyzz, grew up long before you turned 18!
    – When I first met you at 12, you had the wisdom and courage that make many 50+ men I know even today, crawl kilometers far behind you.
    – You have by 50, done, achieved, and experienced what many 50+ year old men can only dream of, if at all.
    – So, today, while not trivializing the very significant milestone turning 50 is, I want to postulate that we are not celebrating your coming of age as a fully grown man entering the autumn of life; we are taking time to celebrate a life of strength, courage, wisdom, love, and happiness. A life of the future. A life of inspirational success.
  • Since as long as I can remember, I’ve been going round with this heavy load of severe inferiority complex issues …
    – But thanks to you, Boyzz, in my adult years, my inferiority complex is my power. You were 12 years old, and I was 17, when you most unequivocally elegantly ordered me to stop comparing myself with other people, and be you assured me that you knew I was not stupid, and, therefore, I could be anything I wanted to be, on my own terms. I grew up overnight, and my life was never to be the same again. Look what we got!
    You are a powerful empowerment, empowering force and agent…

    Warrior Brother-in-law, Lizwe Ndlovu receiving diploma on Anele's behalf. ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

    Super Warrior Brother-in-law, Lizwe Ndlovu receiving diploma on Anele’s behalf.
    ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

  • When I am in dark spaces, and life is hard, much like it’s been the past 7 years or so, your voice echoes every so often: “Stay strong, Si! lt’ll be all fine in the end, my man!”
    – You are my reference point whenever I say I have hope, and I know that I shall soon rise
    – As you well know, if and when I finally respond to people who are not nice to me, I can be extremely ruthless and mean, unforgiving … However, it’s because of the pivotal role you continue playing in my life that I still have faith in the good of people ultimately, despite everything else … You are a great source of inspiration in my daily efforts and work at being a good and decent man of the world.
  • When so far in my life, marriage and biological children just haven’t
    happened yet for me, you’ve gone out and done it twice. You’ve allowed me to be part of your family, an act the internal dynamics of which I have felt and seen strengthening the bonds of our friendship and brotherhood in most profound ways over the years. Thanks for the children. I will love them all, all of my days. Thanks for S’thandwa, whose own wisdom, as well as her constantly declared support and faith in me are unparalleled. Your loyalty and devotion both, as well as your huge generousity and kindness are a blessing I’m privileged and honoured to enjoy. Thank you very much!

    Visiting Anele with some of my original Karate Kids Super Stars from Norway. October 2010. Warrior Queen Mother in the middle.  ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

    Visiting Anele with some of my original Karate Kids Super Stars from Norway. October 2010. Warrior Queen Mother in the middle.
    ©Simon Chilembo, 2015

And, at my 55th birthday party in June, leading on to announcing the 2015 recipient, I went on in an unread, prepared speech:

The Waloba Award 2015 diploma is hereby presented to absolutely the finest of them all historically, a perfect gentleman, my dearest best friend and brother, Anele Malumo, the man to whom I owe my life in more ways than one. Congratulations!

Anele was also my first ever Karate training partner in Lusaka in 1977/ 78. About Karate, he has said somewhere, “… I endured the very often arduous training sessions because with Karate, it did not matter so much that I was small. Through Karate, I learnt the meaning and value of what sports commentators call ‘heart’. I also learned that it is much better to confront your fears head on because after that they generally do not look so daunting”

He would later become a champion High School and University Basket Ball Super Star player, as well as Coach. About Basketball, he says, “Basketball afforded me my most memorable experiences of the thrill of winning and being publicly acknowledged for success”


Simon Chilembo
South Africa
Tel.: +27 717 454 115
June 26, 2015


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